Two years ago during my transition from one apartment to the next I was living out of two suitcases for 8 weeks ( I thought it would only be a couple of weeks). That experience taught me a lot about my relationship with my stuff. Following are questions I asked myself as I decided it was time to let go:
Do I really look good in this?-I believe most people have the experience of putting on an outfit and then asking, why am I still holding onto this since it does not fit nor do I feel good wearing it. I have a few pieces like that. The pink casual knit pants the no longer have a drawer string to keep the pants up or my New York shirt that I love where the letters are coming off. Those items I tossed.
Why do I have so many? –For the past 7 years I have lived in anywhere from 800 to 1,000 square feet so why do I own so many vases? That may not seem like a lot to you but when you are living in a small space every inch of storage counts and storing 8 vases was wasting valuable space. I know why I have so many vases and it is because of the beautiful flowers I received over the years and not wanting to let go of the vases they came in. Now that I am thinking differently about my stuff of the 8 vases I can get rid of at least 3.
Why did I have a 7 ft Christmas Tree?-Until a few months ago I owned a 7 ft Christmas Tree and all the decorations needed to make it beautiful. After pulling everything out and pacing myself to decorate it I finally realized that it took up half of my storage space. Also I was exhausted after decorating it and dreaded thinking of the energy I needed to take it down. This tree would be perfect if I had a larger home ( with help to decorate it) but I don’t and I am just as happy placing decorations throughout my home during the Christmas holiday without a tree so I donated it.
Do I really need this? -As I type this there is at least one handbag and several pairs of shoes I no longer need. The handbag I stopped using because it is too small to carry the essentials I needed and the shoes I wore once because the heels are too high. More items to add to the donation box.
Getting rid of my stuff had me on an emotional roller coaster but it was a ride I am glad I took. Once done I am now surrounded by things I use and love and that make this organizer very happy.
After reading this blog is there something cluttering your home or life you need to get rid of? Is it the cards from the ex’s, the bills and collection letters that have been paid off or the things you will never use or wear? If yes I would love for you to share, please leave a comment below. If you feel you need a little nudge schedule a FREE 15 minute consultation so you can get your life Totally Organized!
